We talked in class about whether which narrator we found more sympathetic. Even though Rochester narrated a huge portion of the book, trying to portray himself as worthy of sympathy, I don’t sympathize with him very much at all. He has a lot more freedom to make his own choices than Antoinette does and with that freedom he ruins Antoinette’s life. I wanted to examine Rochester’s past to see if it could help me understand the choices he makes any better. Rochester certainly has a complicated relationship with his family. At the very beginning of part 2 as they are traveling to the honeymoon house he thinks about writing his father a letter: “I thought about the letter which should have been written to England a week ago. Dear Father…” (61). The fact that he can’t bring himself to write to his father suggests a strained relationship. When Rochester later mentally composes the letter, the bad feelings are even more clear: " Dear Father. The thirty thousand po...